While making love to a woman, you are really making love to existence itself. The woman is just a door, the man is just a door. The other is just a door for the whole, but you are in such a hurry you never feel it. If you remain in communion, in deep embrace for hours together, you will forget the other and the other will just become an extension of the whole. Once this technique is known you can use it alone, and when you can use it alone it gives you a new freedom - freedom from the other.
It really happens that the whole existence becomes the other - your beloved, your lover - and then this technique can be used continuously, and one can remain in constant communion with the existence.
